Relationships are saved in peace and unity
If a couple wants to improve their relationship, they must first turn their attention to what Alfred Adler called our ‘tasks of life’, those duties and responsibilities in life that help us better understand the meaning and purpose of our existence. A life without responsibility is a pointless, purposeless sort of life. No couple will stay together very long unless they share the same view of their responsibilities, for shared responsibilities are the cornerstone of married life.
Couples must tune their violins together if they want to play in harmony, and the following areas of responsibility, or life tasks, can be helpful, whether couples work on their own or with a counsellor. It is never too early to begin; during the first years of marriage, important decisions about child-rearing and home-making are the focus of discussions, but important shared matters should be discussed throughout married life.
Love and marriage
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Humankind is divided into two groups, male and female, and in both evolutionary and religious terms its goal is the procreation of children and the continuation and development of the human race.
Monogamous marriage is the best way of achieving this, in that it provides a stable, long-lasting foundation for children to grow and develop, which is why all the major religions teach it.
All through the ages, wise people have preached peace and harmony between couples as a prerequisite for a strong and lasting marriage.
Peace is the basis for happiness in marriage.
Talmud
There is no more loving or friendly or uplifting relationship, community and society than a good marriage, if the couple lives together in peace and unity.
Martin Luther